Howtoencourage

Thursday, December 20, 2007

Encouragement Gifts

Do you struggle to find that perfect gift to give your friends and family? Something that will keep forever and they can use all year long?

Here are several great suggestions that won't cost you a cent!

The GIFT of LISTENING
But you must really listen. No interrupting, no daydreaming, no planning responses, no second guessing. Just listen. They will never tire of this one.

The GIFT of AFFECTION
Be generous with appropriate hugs, kisses and pats on the back. Let these small actions demonstrate the love you have for your family and closest friends.

The GIFT of LAUGHTER
Clip and share cartoons and funny stories. Your gift will say, "I love to laugh with you and I'm thinking of you."

The GIFT of a WRITTEN NOTE
It can be a simple "thanks for the help" note or a full sonnet. A brief, handwritten note may be remembered for a lifetime and may even change a life.

The GIFT of a COMPLIMENT
A simple and sincere, "you look great in that color" or "you did a super job" or "that was wonderful" can make someone's day.

The GIFT of a FAVOR
Every day, go out of your way to do something kind.

The GIFT of a CHEERFUL DISPOSITION
The easiest way to feel good is to offer a kind word to someone. Really, just a cheery "hello" or "how are you?" can go a long way. Noticing and commenting to a sales clerk or waitress, that gives extra service, can give a special lift during this time of year.

Concentrate on giving these gifts; your shopping will be done early and your bank account will have something left at the end of the year. Best of all, your friends and family will know you really care about them. And that is priceless!

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